In OgmEntityPersister.update, we do an explicit getTuple call without going to the OgmEntityExtraState cache in some "sensitive" situations like optimistic locking check for backends that don't support atomic compare and update. Same for insert to check the presence or not of the object in the datastore.
I imagine other areas don't use the cache as well (see OGM-1153 Open ).

In the "sensitive" situations, we need to be a bit less aggressive and consider valid a cache entry that has been loaded during the same flush.
One option is to add to a cache entry, the (to be defined) flush uuid / unique identifier or even an object reference. If the cache entry has been loaded by the same flush, use the cached entry, otherwise for a getTuple call.

See GridDialectOperationInvocationForOneToOneTest and the extra getTuple that could be avoided.