Diver looks pretty interesting but unfortunately it does not seem to work on OSX thus I can't install to investigate easily.
But I can tell you what I would try :)
First I would try to Open your Server from servers view, click "Open launch configuration" and see if the "Diver launch tab" isn't already just there and you can enable it.
Secondly I would figure out what that diver launch tab actually does, but Diver does not in their docs explain *how* they do this but my guess is that they use a a javaagent of some sort thus it should just be a matter of specifying these options in the Server's launch configuration. To find out how that is done simply launch a normal java app with the tracing enabled, go to the Debug view and right click on the launched process and select "Properties" - in here you should be able to see the command line arguments and see what are Diver specific. Then you can go back to option A and specify these thing manually.
Thirdly, fall back to do this completely manually and simply setup a launch configuration similar to what is in the server editor - the classpath and the classname used.