You posted the question to the wrong forum. This forum is for HornetQ user questions.
Anyway I think your question is how to configure remoting to use jboss03-vm. If so you need to do it with your remoting configure file, esp these two params:
| <attribute name="serverBindAddress">jboss03-vm</attribute> |
| <attribute name="serverBindPort">your port</attribute> |
Howard