Ok i do know now why this is happen although i think this may not be an case for error.
When you push the select button for the configuration file in the create runtime wizzard, the wizzard gives you an full address towards your configutation file ( in my case the standalone-full-ha.xml) when you start the server up it gives you the error as i mention in the earlier post.
So use in the runtime wizzard only the name of the configuration file (without path)