If you only have one item in the view, then the nodes didn't form a cluster.
You said you already tried some of this stuff, but not sure if you tried it all, so:
http://www.jboss.org/community/docs/DOC-12375
http://www.jgroups.org/manual/html/ch02.html, section 2.8 and on.
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